Where were you a year ago? Five years ago? Ten? I love looking back and comparing my life then and now, so when one of my VERY best friends in the whole wide world wrote a post about just this topic on her blog, I had to do one of my own. By the way, my friend's blog -- Sloppy Joes and Tater Tots -- is brand new, so please visit her and give her some bloggy love!
THEN: red wine in a nice big goblet
NOW: grape juice stains on the carpet
THEN: my sunroom was a dedicated reading room
NOW: my sunroom is a dedicated playroom
THEN: high-literary works on my coffee table
NOW: five coloring books and a few dozen broken crayons on my coffee table
THEN: Gorgonzola, feta and brie cheeses in my fridge
NOW: string cheese in my fridge -- sometimes the cool "cheddar and mozzarella" twisty combo!
THEN: lacy bras with matching underwear
NOW: nursing bras and granny panties
THEN: romantic weekend getaways to the mountains or beach
NOW: overnight trips to the Great Wolf Lodge
THEN: matching placemats and fabric napkins on the kitchen table
NOW: three sets of matching placemats with fabric napkins with stains, and a fourth place setting featuring a plastic Sesame Street placemat
THEN: the dog slept in our bed
NOW: the dog sleeps in G's bed
THEN: our third bedroom was an office/guest room
NOW: C sleeps in the third bedroom, our computer is in the family room and our family is forced to stay in a hotel
THEN: I always had time to straighten my hair after getting out of the shower
NOW: shower? huh? haven't seen one in weeks...
THEN: working 50 hours a week and putting all my earnings into savings
NOW: working freelance from home -- when I choose -- and putting all my earnings to pay for preschool, dance and swim lessons, cloth diapers and medical costs
THEN: feeling like something was missing from my life
NOW: knowing my life is complete -- not only because of my two beautiful children, but because of all the amazing people I've come to know (and love!) because of them
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Biggest thing?
You nailed it with the knowing your life is complete comment.
My life was unfufilled.
I know there are people who are complete without the additions of spouse & kid(s), but I'm just not one of them.
Time is the biggest difference ... I feel like I don't have enough of it now. Makes me wonder what I did BEFORE we had Norah?!
Happiness.
THEN: I didn't know what happiness was.
NOW: I do.
Awwww I feel the love! Thank you thank you thank you.
The list could go on and on and on. But I sure do love my life now. :)
Then? I wanted out of this city to somewhere more exciting. I craved excitement.
Now? Excited every day just to wake up. In the city I once wanted to leave. With my husband and two wonderful kiddos. :-)